Insecurities

I'm not going to profess to be the most secure woman in the world when it comes to dating. Everyone has their insecurities, but to me its all in how you deal with them. I do my best to keep them in check as much as I can. If I'm with someone, and I care and trust them enough to be vulnerable with them the I don't mind sharing my insecurities with them, but I'm not about to expose them to the general public. Besides its to my understanding that a man doesn't like a nagging woman...and that can get you left behind.

So, with that being said...insecure women like really rub me the wrong way. I find it hard to understand how if you are "with" someone you constantly feel the need to validate it not only to yourself but to everyone else. Take last night for example...I went to a homegirl's birthday party, and there were 3 couples at the party. Everyone was having a good time, laughing, talking shit, doing what people do at a birthday party. But this one chick felt the need to let EVERYBODY know who her boo was EVERY chance she got. It got to the point where it was getting on my nerves. I was just like nobody is trying to holla at him. Nobody can even have a decent conversation with him because every 5 seconds you are calling his name, telling everybody what you do for him, or jumping in the conversation and ending every sentence with "ain't that right babe?" I just wanted to yell will you sit your insecure ass down somewhere...don't nobody want his ass!

I've been out to parties and to the club with people I've dated...and I'm real chill...well thats my demeanor for the most part anyway. My whole take is do you...and I'll do me. We can catch glimpses at each other from across the room or shoot each other text messages and have inside moments, but I'm not about to be all up under you the entire night....thats just not my style. I feel that if he's mine then he's mine...and if another chic in the room is bad enough to take him from me then it was meant for him to leave.